who's afraid of being lonely

apparently everyone. including my dad.
now that my mum is so actively involved in her line dance sessions (no longer confined within the household), my dad is often "home alone".
even when i'm at home, he's still "home alone", cos i stay in my room all the time.

yes yes yes i know...as a filial son, i should keep him company.
but when he watches movies or drama serials, he needs to talk. like a commentator.
but i need absolute silence so that i can concentrate. like i'm in a cinema.
see the problem?

sometimes he refrains from talking, so that i can enjoy my silence, but 他忍得很辛苦。
sometimes i tolerate his talking，结果他看得很过瘾，我看得很辛苦。
迁就是不会有幸福的。
幸福也只有一方幸福，没有两全其美的办法。

actually my mum hates my dad's commentating too...but she can tolerate.
no wonder they are husband and wife.

to say that "i enjoy being alone" will make me sound like a loner, but i'm not.
you may think loners are pathetic, but they may be enjoying life more than you do.
becos in a crowd, someone always has to COMPROMISE.
even if that someone is not me, i would feel bad for that someone.

how nice if you can always do things your way huh?
you know what? you can.
it's a choice.

PS: 看了《那些年我们一起追的女孩》，没错，很sweet。
不过，看到大家在facebook的观后感，很纳闷。
怎么好像全世界都经历过那段“年少轻狂”的岁月，就只有我没有？
不是遗憾。我自认我的人生到目前为止，没什么值得遗憾的事。
也不是羡慕。拜托，我以前最讨厌那种臭男生了。
就只是...纳闷。